Ask your significant other what they need from a conversation!
Posted on August 23, 2013, in Uncategorized and tagged advice, communication. Bookmark the permalink. 1 Comment.
As someone who was socialized as a boy but has the chemical outpourings of female brain chemical saturation (trans)-I find the interpersonal relationship with my partner (genetic cis-female) to be the core of communication social structure.
She prefers direct answers and decisions, but I feel at times its based on the hetero-normative socialization she received and expects it more often than my “I-wanna-talk-about-cute-things” mind allows.
Saving grace is that she is bi but never had things work out with cis-women because they don’t jump to pay for things, open the door, protective, chivalrous-etc.
Her and my relationship has complex layers, but there is never a dull moment and its always positive in the end.
Thank you for stirring social conscious once again!
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