Sexual Acts: Female Masturbation and Orgasm

Masturbation is the act of achieving orgasm through manual stimulation. It is generally done alone, in private and is a normal and healthy part of a fulfilled sex life. Females achieve orgasm through direct or indirect stimulation of the clitoris.

Fast Facts:
The clitoris contains over 8,000 nerves.
The clitoris is the only human organ designed exclusively for pleasure. It has no other purpose.
Women can have multiple orgasms during sexual activity. With a few notable exceptions, men are limited to one orgasm during sexual activity.

Vaginal Orgasms: Are They Real?

With the recent studies that have been done regarding the clitoris, it has now become apparent that it is a much larger organ than previously thought. In fact, one of the walls of the vaginal canal is the back side of the clitoris, and may be what is commonly referred to as the “G-Spot”. Despite what pornography would have you believe, it is very rare for penis-in-vagina sex to adequately stimulate this area. It is possible for a woman to have an orgasm through vaginal penetration, but it still all comes down to stimulating the clitoris!

But My Body is Gross!

Masturbation is a topic that few people discuss with young girls, except to impart that the act is dirty, immoral, and that “good girls don’t”. As a result of this attitude, it is common for girls and women to think their entire genital area is dirty, smelly, ugly, or gross. The exact opposite is true. Unless the woman has an infection, the vaginal area is not dirty or smelly, and it certainly isn’t ugly or gross.

Have you ever taken the time to look at an orchid blossom? They are considered one of the most beautiful flowers in the world. They also resemble a woman’s vulva and clitoris.

How Does This Thing Work?

Everyone has a different method of masturbation. Female masturbation generally involves massaging the clitoris, either with fingers or with something that vibrates. There is a build up of tension, and then the muscles in the vaginal canal will contract. Sometimes there are several contractions, sometimes there are just one or two. Your whole body may spasm, or just the muscles in the vaginal canal. Orgasms are not the same for everyone, but they definitely feel good.

Just Do It

I personally believe that it is important for a girl to take the time to explore her own body and to know how to make herself orgasm before she engages in sexual activities that involve another person. If you don’t know what feels good to you, how can you expect another person to figure it out when you engage in sexual activity with a partner? Get comfortable with your own body, use a mirror and take a look at yourself, everywhere. Find the different parts of your vaginal area, and explore different sensations. Orgasms are awesome, and you should have as many as you’d like.

Posted on January 24, 2012, in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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